■ Thanks everyone for your answers!
I still feel quite sad about the whole thing.
I am going to tell my story to everyone who is interested. My wife has got a lot of support from other people who have been thru the same. I will try to help as well as I can!
My wife has been FANTASTIC, strong, supportive and
loving! I owe her my life!
My wife is Japanese, and I have permanent visa, so we'll stay, for now at least.
My boss came to court to witness on my behalf. He is an old fashioned guy, but told the court that he was willing to give me another chance.
My father in law came up with the bail money.
The local "Ikan" was full, so I stayed at the police station the whole time, for you who don't know what ikan is, read here This is NOT my story though!
Everyone involved in this case has treated me nice, I can't complain about other than an unfair law that was close to ruining my life.
I still have scars on my soul, I am mentally and physically weak, and I have became addicted to sleeping medicine that the police doctor gladly gave away (BIZARRE!!) and I cannot sleep
but I have love and support.
I will fight the law, not break it!
Don't do like me, do as I tell you
ATB
Thunder